I thought I would never do that, I was so convinced I was right, I had all the reasons to support me all the way! But after a while I changed my mind...so what?!!! And I do that all the time! Why changing one’s mind is is always considered weakness or a kind of hesitance; a fault, and people should be blamed for changing their mind! Why do people think you're wrong if you changed your mind about a certain thing, thought or situation! I have always had my mind changing for as long as I can remember, and I never thought it was wrong if you change your mind. Change is the only thing that never changes in life; there's always a change in something and all things have got to change at a certain point if not all the time. Then why people grant themselves the right to judge those who change their minds?! Isn’t change natural? Why then in this particular case it is considered wrong and not preferred or sometimes allowed! I think changing your mind is healthy in a way. And it's unfair if you never changed your mind, because you will be simply a one-way thinking person; not giving your thoughts a second chance to grow and develop!!!...and CHANGE! Right?! and maybe sometimes it's good to change your mind...and obviously right, but just for the sake of the concept people stick to their heads and become stubborn so no one might never ever say they changed their mind; as if it's a shame to do so!!! Changing your mind is really helpful and useful. I know people whose life is really messed up because of that they never like to change their mind! People who don't talk to each other, friends, families, and it's all because no one wants to admit that deep down they want to change their mind but they just can't! Sometimes pride and dignity overwhelm us; poor miserable humans, making us think we're the ultimate persons ever lived! well, just taking a look at all who passed away, and realising we can overlook so many unimportant things in life, to be brave enough to change our mind, and never being ashamed of having second thoughts. People sometimes seek help on how to hold on to their opinions and thoughts, when they are ought to get a lot of help on how to be more flexible and accept the fact that they might after all change their mind. I think I might change my mind later about this whole thing, and think the way people are thinking....who knows!!! I definitely don't! But I think I might Because it's my right to change my mind
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